Exceptional events aren’t actually that exceptional, but the impact they have on your goals could be.

If you have read any of my other blogs you’ll know I am trying to bring recent science around behaviour forward and into an app which uses these insights to help myself (and anyone else who wants to) get better at achieving the changes and goals I set my mind to.

Exceptional events are like black swans surround by white – easy to overlook until they derail our plans. In this blog, I am looking at how we underestimate that outsized impact from things that we believe to be rare. As always, for clarity, when you spot text which is Dark Orange it is directly from the research papers, everything else is my fault. You can find full details of the research papers mentioned at the bottom of the post.

Why those one offs could be much worse for your progress than you anticipate.

On the journey to our goals, our progress is often planned, or at least hoped to be a fairly straight line. This would be easy if everything went to plan and ran like clock work. However, pesky unforeseen things crop up which halt our progress, if only a little bit… But how little of an impact do they really have? We tend to under estimate the frequency and impact of exceptional events, both during our planning, but also in the moment. Collectively these can have an outsized impact on achieving our goals.

What specifically were the researchers trying to show?

Collectively these two pieces of research are trying to improve the understanding around whether things which occur less frequently change how we think about them, and therefore how we react to them.

So were they right?

If we consider that 40% of the food we eat can be viewed as infrequent, and that when we view food as being rare, or infrequent we are more inclined to overindulge, it becomes clear how much this could impact a goal like controlling food intake. As it is the way we view the infrequent occurrence as being a one-off and therefore not needing to be accounted for, or being unlikely to have a negative impact on our progress, it is easy to see why just understanding this bias can begin to change our framing and how we approach exceptional events, or special treats.

This research is important in understanding our ability to achieve goals, as while we may view these individual instances as rare and therefore unimportant; if we are to zoom back and notice the bigger trends, we are likely to notice that the thing we view as a one-off occurs more than we think at first glance. Like the individual black swan in the image, if we focus on the foreground we may assume it is insignificant, however if we take a closer look, there are many more. This higher occurrence and our tendency to view them as being of lower significance sets up infrequent moments to have a real and significant impact on our ability to achieve our goals.

So what can I do right now?

Build in a bigger buffer than you may think you need
For areas of concern, track to get accustomed with what those infrequent items actually cost
Utilise super categories to help you be aware of your decisions, e.g. so while the spend on new brakes for your car is infrequent, if it is bundled with other travel expenses it can be viewed as routine and budgeted as such, or perhaps more simply a category for “exceptional”.
Use visualisation and pre-planning to ensure you have a response for the unexpected things

How will this look in Resolute?

Within the Resolute app you will find a few features which will help account for exceptional, infrequent and rare hiccups along the way to your goals.

  1. During goal setting Resolute will prompt you to look at incorporating a bigger buffer
  2. If you use the tracking features of resolute, you will be able categorise and report on how progress is going to help you identify earlier whether exceptional events might be impacting your progress
  3. While conducting progress reviews, Resolute will prompt the creation of plan of how to approach what to do when faced with an infrequent occurrence.
  4. Resolute will link to these blog posts, as the research shows being aware of this bias means you’re less likely to be impacted and behaviour in a way which is not aligned with your goals when faced with an exceptional event.

References

1. Sussman, A. B., Alter, A. L. (2012) The exception is the rule: Underestimating and overspending on exceptional expenses. Journal of Consumer Research. 39. 800-814. https://doi.org/10.1086/665833

2. Sussman, A. B., Paley, A., Alter, A. L. (2021) How and why our eating decisions neglect infrequently consumed foods. Journal of Consumer Research. 48. 2 251-269. https://doi.org/10.1093/jcr/ucab011

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